
Opening with a compliment is a great way to make someone feel good about themselves, but it has to be done right. Generic comments like “You have pretty eyes”. Her profile is basically a guidebook on what types of things would be good to mention in an opening line and continued messages. Moreover, her listed interests. In this era of digital dating apps, "what's up" isn't likely to get you a response. It's also the best way to stand out, says Laura Bilotta, a Toronto matchmaker and author of “People appreciate authenticity in a first message.