Reddit online dating guy picked me but didnt like

We have all known the anxiety that comes with trying to work out whether a crush shares our feelings.

But the mystery could be at an end, as people who discovered that the object of their affection did feel the same way have revealed the signs that gave it away. 

In a new thread on Reddit user new-mustard-lover asked fellow Redditors: 'What are some signs that someone's into you?'

Reddit users have revealed how to know if your crush likes you back with many agreeing that eye contact is hugely important

It wasn't long before coupled-up members came forward with their advice on what to look out for in a potential suitor.

Many agreed that body language is hugely important when it comes to working out whether someone likes you.

Several users were in agreement that eye contact was important when deciphering someone's feelings, however, opinion was divided as to what eye contact meant.

Some said that if a potential date is looking down or struggling to maintain eye contact then this is a sign they are into you - though it was typically men who said this of women, rather than the other way around. 

However, others argued that it was keeping constant eye contact and even a stare that means they are interested.

One woman said that she looks for 'tunnel vision' from a man to know that he fancies her.

While body language is important actions from a crush are also equally vital to keep an eye out for.

In an honest account one man said that he tries to show off more around women he thinks are out of his league, and says other men do the same. 

One woman admitted that if she is sending you a Snapchat when drunk, it is usually because she wants to take the relationship further.

One woman said that if she sends a man drunk Snapchats it usually means she is interested 

Many agreed that showing enthusiasm for your hobbies and also a willingness to get involved with your interests is a good sign.

Several were in agreement that if a crush is prepared to laugh at your bad jokes then they are almost certainly into you. 

One man said that if they mimic your behaviour it is likely that they have been checking you out - and he even suggests a way to test it out. 

Showing an interest in your love life also suggests that they are interested in being involved according to this redditor. 

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