Poor looks | 662 | Cause I am ugly as fuck and have been cursed with awful genetics. Being under 6′0″ means I am invincible to women. |
Low self-esteem/confidence | 544 | Because I have massive self-esteem issues, I think I’m worthless, and I don’t do social things because I don’t want to inflict my stupid, worthless presence on other people. Confidence is the key, and I′ m locked out…. |
Low effort | 514 | I don’t put any effort or make any moves. I’ve never been really all that into actively seeking out a relationship. I’ve always believed relationships come and go on their own. |
Not interested in relationships | 424 | And no, I’m not saying that I can’t get anybody. I actively don’t want to be in a relationship. I like my freedom and privacy. |
Poor flirting skills | 421 | I’m completely fine talking to people I have 0 interest in, but if I remotely have a crush on you I’m probably gonna be really fucking awkward. Any semblance of social skills I have go out the window if I have a crush on you. My IQ drops to about 40 whenever I talk to women |
Introverted | 411 | My days are spent at work/sleeping/working on projects around the house. The only way I am going to find someone new is if they break into my home while I’m there. Not many women on my way from my room to a kitchen and back. |
Recently broke up | 363 | My girlfriend just broke up with me…. Because I broke up with my girlfriend 3 hours ago. |
Bad experiences from previous relationships | 330 | My last relationship ended so badly I never want to be in one again. Because my last relationship was toxic as hell and now I avoid relationships to prevent being hurt that badly again. |
No available women | 319 | I have no avenues for meeting women. While being a mechanical engineering contractor is a pretty attractive job to have, you aren’t exactly surrounded by women. |
Overweight | 315 | Honestly, as my username suggests-too fat. [username twofat] Cause I’m fugly! |
Different priorities | 309 | I’m focusing on building my career, so I don’t have the luxury of dedicating enough time to a relationship right now. Grades before babes. |
Shyness | 300 | Shy. That’s pretty much it. Cause I’m too shy to ask anyone out |
Too picky | 294 | My standards are too high for what I bring to the table. To be fair I tend to chase near impossibilities. |
Anxiety | 283 | I get terrible anxiety around women. Overwhelming anxiety whenever I try to speak with any woman I′ m interested in. |
Lack of time | 256 | Because I work 6 days a week and on Saturdays I play video games and sleep. Between two jobs is hard to find any time for dating. |
Socially awkward | 249 | I’m too awkward Awkward as fuck. |
Enjoying being single | 217 | I don’t value the things that a relationship brings, I value the things that casually dating brings. I usually date girls casually for a month or so then find someone new. Keeps things fresh and exciting for me. I’m lucky enough to be good looking enough to have random women sleep with me. So I’m pretty much going to stay single until my buying power declines and I’m forced to settle down. |
Depression | 204 | Depression kept me from going out and meeting new people for years. Crippling depression. |
Poor character | 188 | My personality is radioactive. I suffered from anger management and also being a huge narcissist. |
Difficult to find women to match | 171 | Have yet to meet a girl who shares my interests who wasn’t already with someone else. It is hard to find a woman my age who enjoys the same things, and doesn’t have kids already. |
Poor mental health | 154 | I am a high-functioning autist and feel deeply uncomfortable of physical contact. Mental illness |
Lack of achievements | 146 | Because I’m a 41-year-old with all the qualifications and achievements of a 19-year-old. Being a 31-year-old grocery store drone doesn’t exactly drop the panties. |
Stuck with one girl | 138 | I’m in love with my best friend, who’s had a long distance boyfriend for a few years, and I can’t get over her. I want to be with a certain girl so bad that I’m either ignoring my other options or just not taking them seriously. |
Lack of social skills | 137 | Because I have the social skills of a dead goldfish. Zero social skills |
Have not got over previous relationship | 134 | Still kind of in love with a girl who broke my heart nearly 3 years ago. I’m currently mentally addicted to my ex and I can’t imagine myself with anyone else. |
Don’t know how to start/be in a relationship | 133 | I quite literally do not know how to be in a relationship. I don’t know shit about dating and flirting. |
Lack of money | 131 | I don’t have money for dates, I barely pay my gas bill. Money…I don’t have a lot of it to treat a lady. |
I do not trust women | 125 | I have trust issues and made the decision to avoid relationships. I’m single because I can’t trust women for now. |
Not picking up clues of interest | 124 | I cant tell the difference if a girl is just nice to me or she is in to me. So I kinda let everything slip away. I’m terrible at picking up on signals. |
Sexual issue | 114 | What it lacks in girth, it also lacks in length. I’m asexual and afraid that people with leave when they find out. |
Fear of relationships | 113 | Because women tend to make me very domesticate, fat, and lazy whenever I put a name on it (girlfriend). Because the pain is inevitable. Relationships wear you down and crush your soul. |
I am not interesting | 103 | I am the most thoroughly boring person I know. Dull job (to most people). Dull interests, unremarkable body, unremarkable personality. I’m not exactly the kind of person who interests people. |
Fear of rejection | 96 | The crippling fear of the girl saying no. My fear of rejection stops me in all tracks of wanting to ask any girl out in person. |
I will not be a good partner | 95 | I am scared that maybe I’ll not be a good boyfriend since I don’t know anything about romantic stuff and what girls like. Because I don’t want to bring some poor girl into the depressing pit that is my life. |
Attracted to wrong women | 87 | Every woman who captures my interest is either taken, insane, or both. I have an uncanny knack for being attracted only to girls who aren’t single. |
Homosexual | 86 | Because I’m gay and 99% of the people I become attracted to aren’t. Gay and in the closet |
Given up | 85 | Many rounds of rejection. Just gave up after a while. I’ll be fine on my own. You get tired of being turned down after a while |
Is not worth the effort | 82 | Relationships take a lot of work, I’m not willing to put the effort in. Not worth the immense effort that you need to put in order to even find out if they’re interested or not. |
Fear of commitment | 73 | Don’t like the commitment a relationship entails Commitment is hard. |
Health – disability issue | 72 | I’m disabled and confined to a wheelchair. Not many girls will settle for that. Because I’m HIV positive. |
Difficult to keep a relationship | 67 | I somehow became unable to maintain any kind of relationship My relationships never last over 3 months. Girls break up with me without ever telling me the real reason. |
Addictions | 58 | I’m young and an alcoholic and no one wants to date an alcoholic. I am single because of my alcoholism. |
Other | 807 | I am not ready Just damn clingy |
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