6 Dating Apps That Will Lead You to Your Threesome Dreams
Ah, threesomes. So great for people who are into 'em, but nearly impossible to just randomly stumble upon. (Like, if connecting with one person seems like a hard feat, finding two interested in getting it on seems low-key impossible).
But if you're wanting to fulfill your threesome fantasy if and when it's safe to go out and have sex again (subtweeting you, COVID-19), there are plenty of options that don't involve awkwardly asking your friends of friends—unless that's what you want, ofc.
Introducing, dating apps—specifically for threesomes. Yup, some exist solely for that purpose. And while it's a no-no to have sex with new people right now, dating apps can still help ~set the mood~ and get you thinking about your threesome options with only a few simple swipes. You know, for when the time comes that you can actually get up off of your couch for said sex.
The hard part: Lots of dating app options = not knowing which one is best for you and your needs. Don't mistake this for a bad thing, though. It just means you'll have to do your research, which I'm so happy to say we've already done for you. (You're welc.)
So let's dive into your ménage à trois fantasy and offer up some dating app options, shall we?
The best for anyone feeling frisky for something non-vanilla: Feeld
Originally called 3nder (before getting sued by Tinder for its likeness to the brand—lol), Feeld is the most well-known app for talking to multiple people—and actually comes highly recommended by the polyamorous community. You can join the app as a couple or a single, it has a great chat feature perfect for multi-person messages, it's based on inclusivity (I'm talking 20+ sexual and gender identities), and even though it uses Facebook to make sure you’re a real person, it’s totally discrete and (thankfully) won’t post to your page.
While the base app is free, you can pay extra for its ~majestic membership~, which is $11.99 monthly or $23.99 for three months. Both options give you enhanced features including more privacy (like being able to hide your profile from FB friends also on the app), the ability to see your likes, and the option to add photos only your matches can see *wiggles eyebrows suggestively.*
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The best for purely threesomes: 3Somer
Unlike Feeld, which is great for all types of kinks, 3Somer is an app literally just specifically for finding threesomes. Whether you want something casual or serious, the app is shockingly easy to use since its interface works just like every other mainstream dating app. You make a profile (whether solo or as a couple) and you start matching with people in the area by swiping. The app lets you specify what you’re into and also gives you more freedom with your profile, allowing you to post photos and status updates just like Facebook. The base app is free but you can pay $15.49 a month or $99.99 a year for its premium gold membership.
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The best for those on a budget: 3Fun
While a lot of threesome apps have the same general concepts (chats, pictures, and hopefully an orgasm at the end), 3Fun seems to offer the most valuable features in its free base download. Not only can you actually see who likes your profile and chat unlimitedly, but you can browse, add private photos, and set location boundaries so your neighbors don’t find your account (if you don’t want them to, that is). The best part: There’s a photo verification which eliminates bots and fake accounts. If you want to upgrade, the VIP service subscription starts at $29.99 a month, but TBH, the base account will most likely fulfill alllll of your needs.
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The best for fans of Instagram: 3rder
If your love language is Instagram stories, you’re 100 percent going to be here for 3rder’s model. While it comes with all of the usual bells and whistles, it also has a tool called “Moments” which lets you share up-to-date details just like you would in your story. While it doesn’t have as many free options as other apps, once you pay, it provides everything you could want — like a comprehensive profile the outlines exactly what you’re looking for and a simple-to-use interface. The pricing starts with 1-month subscriptions at $9.99 or you can get a 6-month membership for $39.99.
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The best for anyone looking to actually have fun using the app: Fantasy Match
When it comes to a comprehensive app that actually teaches you about your kinks and curiosities, none of the others can compare to Fantasy Match. There are multiple ways you can use it, whether you’re joining as a couple or a single. Basically, you have three main options for how to use the app (which you can mix up and use at your own discretion). You can learn (get your sex IQ and take courses), play (truth or dare, sex dice, and sex roulette cards is just the start), or flirt (where you can connect with locals). Ranging from $5-$10, you can add on things like a Club Membership subscription, which unlocks even more features, or you can buy ~sexy stories~ to heat things up even more.
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The best for those who don’t want a new app: Tinder
Odds are you either already have Tinder downloaded or it’s somewhere in the elusive cloud. Funny enough, it’s just as easy to use the app to find an eager third or a couple as it is to find a thirsty single.
Just select your sexual preference, what gender you’re looking for, add some photos of you and your S.O. (if you’re a duo looking for a third), and get to swiping. Make sure your bio is super clear so people don’t get confused, and reap the benefits of utilizing one of the most popular dating apps in a format you’ve probably already used to find a few flings in the past. Upgrade to Plus for $9.99 or Gold for $14.99 to unlock additional perks like a Boost to be the top profile in your area for 30 minutes or Super Likes to help stand out from others looking to get laid.
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