Guy i just met changed dating app profile pic

Originally Posted by Imdatgirl

Hi everyone! I have a dilemma about a guy I met online. We've been dating for a month. I see him every week. He's been treating me good. He initiates communication. He takes me out on dates. I could tell by his actions that he's into me. We became intimate. I only see him and I was hoping he does the same. We agreed to date exclusively but we still have our online dating profiles up. It never occurred to me to bring up about deleting our accounts because he has never showed me any signs that I should worry and doubt about his intentions of being with me. Everything was great except what I found out last night.

Last night, I logged on to my online dating account after not logging on for a long time. I logged on not to look or meet people but to read and delete my messages that have not been read for a while. While I was going through my inbox and deleting each one, I came across his profile and clicked on it. I saw that he had uploaded a new picture. I don't know exactly when he did it but there was a new photo on his profile. The first thing that came to my mind was he still trying to meet someone. Am I wrong to think that way? Should I confront him about it? What's the best way to do it? Do you guys think that it's a red flag that he put up a new picture? Should I be worried? All opinions and advices are appreciated. Thank you.

Originally Posted by lastwomanstanding

Hello, I'm happy for you that you found someone. However, if he's still not looking, what would be the need for him to change his picture? I think , as difficult as the conversation would be, you should simply ask him. "Hey, I was online the other day deleting old emails and such from the dating site and I noticed you changed your profile pic. Why?" and maybe suggesting you two should take the profiles down -if that is what you want- should be considered a subject to bring up in conversation. Good luck, communication is important as is trust.