Women complain about dating

12-04-2012, 05:37 PM

I don't really understand this, so perhaps somebody can enlighten me


I hear women complain about not finding somebody, in the same time they admit its very easy to get dates. I don't understand this concept. If you're getting approached by a huge number of men, why is it so difficul to find somebody? I don't understand. Is it because a lot of guys are only interested in sex? Or is it because a lot of guys don't qualify for the laundry list of standards women have or they wait too long to make a move or they don't breathe the right way?


I'm just completely baffled by the idea of a woman being lonely. If you get approached by a 100 men in a few months (sounds like a normal number fo any non obese women), wouldn't a least a few of them be decent?

12-04-2012, 05:48 PM

I don't think the women being approached by a lot of guys and the women complaining about not finding someone are the same women.

I also think you have a lot to learn about compatibility. You seem to think that anyone who fits your physical specifications will work out just peachy. You're headed for a cliff.

12-04-2012, 05:49 PM

Because women do not actually have 50,000 options.

Because 90% of women don't actually have boyfriends.

Because women do not click with every guy.

Because women do not get hit on by 100 men in a few months.

Because every number you've literally thrown out is made up in your brain with nothing to back it up.

Most women do not have a laundry list of standards in which men have to accomodate. If they do, those standards begin to dwindle in time because 0 men in this world fit those standards they have. Those women should be avoided anyway.

You are held back by your own laundry list of excuses, that you only have made up in your mind. It's all you and no ne else but you. I understand some venting, but this is seriously rediculous. You say approaching women is awkward. Here's the thing: life is awkward, get over it and go out and take life by the balls and find a woman and stop crying like a damn 12 year old.

12-04-2012, 05:52 PM

Bravo, Froggie. BRA-VO!!!

12-04-2012, 05:53 PM

I don't think I can rep you Prince_Frog, but that was an epic post.

OP: I'm not sure when you're going to get a freakin' clue. You complain about a woman's laundry list of standards, yet I've barely been here any time at all and you have one of the longest lists I've ever seen.

Stop over-thinking everything, and start doing, I don't think you'll have much luck doing, but you might find someone shallow enough to be all over your great job, great salary, and great looks.

12-04-2012, 05:56 PM

@ frog.

12-04-2012, 05:57 PM

Hi brahmabull117--

I know plenty of women like this. They complain endlessly about not being able to find the right guy yet they are attractive by any reasonable standard and are approached by plenty of guys.

I did my part - I showed interest. Considering I'm currently single, they've all either (1) said no, or (2) said yes and it didn't work. Their loss.

Move on.

12-04-2012, 06:00 PM

She doesn't speak for all women. You wouldn't know how many women you click with or don't click with, because you don't talk to women! So you don't have a leg to stand on in this conversation. Most humans only click with about 10% of other humans, if that. That's life. Deal.

12-04-2012, 06:01 PM

BB... is this a continuation of your I can't find a woman thread ? How did your date go a few weeks ago ?

You need to move to someplace with warm weather where the girls wear less clothes and are much more friendly.

Southern girls are friendly and looking for good men.