 04-22-2013, 08:44 PM | | | Location: State of Transition 85,953 posts, read 79,149,378 times |
| Originally Posted by mediocre Is it possible? I walk by a certain ivy league school and I notice so many good looking women. Like they are fit and have nice fashion sense. They are also obviously very smart, smarter than me since I go to a state school. I get this sense that if I were to date one than it would be huge accomplishment. My plan is to one day sit next to a girl, and compliment her fashion sense. I will post results here, when I do it. |
That's ridiculous. Most women don't care about relative status of universities. Men seem a lot more conscious of that than women. But it depends on the women. There are a lot of events organized between those Ivy-League schools, mixers, and stuff. So it depends on how you meet them. If any attend community events, meetup groups, or something, you could meet them that way. Don't forget, there are students at those schools on scholarships, too. Students who don't come from a privileged background. There are shy girls, snooty girls, intellectual girls, party girls, airheads attending because their parents attended so they get accepted automatically even though they barely passed their HS classes, all kinds of people attend those schools. |
04-22-2013, 08:50 PM | | | Location: Brentwood, Tennessee 50,000 posts, read 48,232,572 times |
| Originally Posted by mediocreIs it possible? I walk by a certain ivy league school and I notice so many good looking women. Like they are fit and have nice fashion sense. They are also obviously very smart, smarter than me since I go to a state school. I get this sense that if I were to date one than it would be huge accomplishment. My plan is to one day sit next to a girl, and compliment her fashion sense. I will post results here, when I do it. |
Many flaws in your thinking that need to be addressed: 1) Plenty of smart people go to state schools. 2) Level of income is not an accurate indicator of desire to pay for things. 3) People are people, not accomplishments. 4) Given all your assumptions about these Ivy League girls, why settle on complimenting her fashion sense? Why not ask something about school, her classes, a book she might be carrying, etc.? |
04-22-2013, 08:56 PM | | | Location: State of Transition 85,953 posts, read 79,149,378 times |
| Originally Posted by lmw36And going to a nice school means they're more willing to pay for dates?  |
Sounds like he's hoping to mooch off her. If she's going to a school with people who come from wealthy backgrounds, she may take for granted that the guy will pay for the date. Again, it depends on the person. There's a fair amt. of attitude diversity at those schools. You should stop putting down your school and your intelligence level, OP. Sounds like you have self-esteem issues, if you feel like dating a girl from the Ivy League would be "an achievement". They're not prizes to be won. They're people. |
04-22-2013, 08:57 PM | | | 32 posts, read 64,782 times |
| Originally Posted by Wmsn4LifeMany flaws in your thinking that need to be addressed:
1) Plenty of smart people go to state schools.
2) Level of income is not an accurate indicator of desire to pay for things.
3) People are people, not accomplishments.
4) Given all your assumptions about these Ivy League girls, why settle on complimenting her fashion sense? Why not ask something about school, her classes, a book she might be carrying, etc.? |
Yes you are right. Thanks for the advice. Their fashion sense is what initially catches my eye. I will bring my own books, and we can discuss them through in-depth discussion lol. |
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