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Getting married to a Filipina - or ANYONE - is a difficult, risky business in this day and age. My second "kick at the can" has been wonderfully, tremendously successful.BUT, here's the bad news, it's mostly luck, just dumb luck. I waited for my wife for three and a half YEARS before we were married - as, by my choice, I waited for her to finish university. And when I say waited, I mean WAITED.During this period, I visited her dozens of times and lived for months with her and her family.

We will have been married for ten years in July, have three small children, she is hard working, frugal, has become an avid gardner and a GREAT cook, and is still as beautiful and sexy as when I met her thirteen years ago (when she won the provincial beauty contest and was Miss Campus Queen).

Now here's my point: after waiting for three plus years and all the visits, I knew almost nothing about her compared to what I know now. Despite my thinking that I knew my wife to be inside out, I knew almsot nothing about her after all that time.

Almost all of I learned after our marriage has been good, even terrific news. But it could just as easily been bad news. Lucky me, but it's scary, since it could have been the other way.

Filipina (and Filipinos) are very closed people compared us Americans, Australians and so on. We tell it like it is, more or less. They do not tell you about themselves; rather they tell us what they think we want to hear. You think they are opening up to you, but NO.

I was lucky (the second time), hope you are too. Just remember you are marrying someone who is from a different culture, and probably from a different religion, education level, economic level and so on. Watch out. Many horrow stories out there.

If any of you would like to read more of my "insights", just let me know.

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