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Some of the best hookup sites are well known by name, but not everyone understands how to use them to get laid.

The problem is each hookup site works best for different groups of people. Some are best for people in college, some are best for finding friends with benefits, and others are best for older men, etc.

In this post, we’ve put together a list that will do the hard work for you, and match you with a hookup site that gets YOU results.

10 Best Hookup Sites

1. Best all-around hookup site – AdultFriendFinder
2. An effective hookup site with a twist – AshleyMadison
3. Best for meeting young women – Seeking
4. Best new hookup app – Hinge
5. Best 100% free no signup site – Reddit R4R
6. Best BDSM hookup site – Alt.com
7. Free personals and casual encounters site – Craigslist Activities
8. Best hookup app for women to use – Bumble
9. Best for classic hookups – Tinder
10. Best hookup site for teens – OkCupid
11. Best for power couples – eHarmony
12. Best international sex dating site – Zoosk

1. Adult Friend Finder – Best Hookup Site Online

Adult Friend Finder placed #1 on our list because of its combination of high membership, free amateur content, and a thriving social community so big you can probably find a partner in a short period of time. 

Adult Friend Finder, founded in 1996, is one of the oldest sites for casual and niche dating online. The site claims to have 90 million members across the world, and brings together a dating community, amateur sex videos/photos, and an active community of bloggers and commentators. 

The site offers everything else “adult” including such as couples, swingers, open marriages, and even email-only cybersex. Search the local community for members or search for niche keywords with the paid subscription. 

Pros

• Get lots of amateur content along with community-oriented chat
• Integration with other social media sites, if that doesn’t bother you
• Buy “swag” badges for members you like

Cons

• Not much in the way of romance – but a lot of nudity
• No real matching system 

Price

• $39.95/month
• $26.95/3 months
• $19.95/12 months

Read the full Adult Friend Finder Review

2. Ashley Madison – Best Hookup Site for No Strings Attached

Ashley Madison was the runner-up on our list because of its high membership, reportedly boasting over 60 million “married but looking” members in 45 countries. 

Ashley Madison targets people who are unhappy in their marriage, which automatically gives it a demographic of older middle class users. The result is easy pickings for hookups and casual sex if you are a guy, you’ll have much better odds here than you do on Tinder since there is more pent up demand for sex among its members. 

The local “Traveling” feature makes it easy to come across casual partners anywhere in the world, whereas the “wink” feature helps to break the ice. 

Pros

• Complete anonymity from other users 
• Women join for free
• One of the few online dating sites that encourage married…but looking relationships

Cons

• Not surprisingly, many profiles are incomplete or lacking clear photos 
• Depending on your views could be unethical

Price

• Elite, 1000 credits, 29 cents per credit
• Classic, 500 credits, 34 cents per credit
• Basic, 100 credits, 59 cents per credit 

Read the full Ashley Madison review

3. Seeking – Best for Meeting Young Women or Wealthy Men

Seeking has a theme – sugar daddies matching with sugar babies, or in some cases sugar mommas looking for sugar cubs. If you have a bit of extra money and are willing to splurge on dinner and some shopping then this website is by far the easiest way to hook up with models and attractive college girls.  Unlike other fuck sites on the list, this one has a high female to male ratio of 79% women to 21% men.  Being a guy on this site is what being an attractive girl is like on Tinder, you will get dozens of messages a day from hot women.

Seeking makes it easy for everyone. It’s free for women to join, men can send messages before they pay, and paying members get plenty of attention – from multiple babies/cubs since the ratio is more female to male.

Pros

• Free memberships for women
• Women can meet verified wealthy men for hookup dates 
• Since sugar daddies pay, there is considerably less competition and more matches

Cons

• Not much use to low-income or middle-class male users unless you fake it
• Since it’s a sugar daddy site, some people will want you to spend $2000+ a month on them.
• While prostitution is illegal on Seeking, there are still some “undercovers” using the site

Pricing

• Free for women
• $89.95/month
• $79.95/3 months
• $249.95 Diamond elite membership

Read the full seeking.com review.

4. Hinge – Best Fling App

Hinge is “designed to be deleted,” meaning it’s supposedly so adept at finding your perfect match, you won’t be single for long. When it comes to casual dating, however, you might be able to find better success for a no strings attached affair by first searching for a compatible friend. 

Hinge offers a questionnaire with fun questions as well as some heavy political/religious viewpoints to filter out bad matches. You not only match with others, but you can select what part of the profile you liked, whether a photo or an answer to a question. 

Pros

• An even ratio of men to women, as well as options like bisexual dating
• Leave feedback on your dates to the Hinge team and get better results next time
• Date from home option lets you quickly do phone or video chat

Cons

• Demographics cater to 24-32 age group and long-term relationships

Price

• $12.99/month
• $20.99/3 months
• $29.99/6 months

5. Reddit R4R – Completely Free No Sign Up Hookup Site

With over 342,000 members, Reddit R4R is one of the most active free dating sites online. It’s a Reddit community, meaning members can drop by anonymously and leave private messages, or post their own personal ad. 

While the Reddit R4R doesn’t have any sub-subgroups, you can search the entire Reddit site for your local city to see if any singles are in town looking for a fling. Just beware, some subreddits that include your local city or town may be named something like “DirtyR4R” or “Random Acts of Sex.”

Pros

• Very easy and practically anonymous registration
• No need to upload any photos
• Directly message users, rather than waiting to be matched

Cons

• May be difficult to find someone local if you live in a small town or deep rural territory

Price

6. Alt.com – BDSM Hookup Site

It can be awkward to explain your sexual kinks to a stranger – and definitely for a first-time chat! That’s why there’s an advantage to using a site like Alt.com, which lets you search for and match users who share your alternative desires. Alt offers members into swinging, bondage, fetishes, domination, submission, and everything else in-between. 

Members can get matched with someone who shares their kinks. Paying members can also sneak a peek at who viewed their page, and take part in the friend network and connect with people willing to talk about their favorite taboo subject.

Pros

• BDSM community for easy search/filtering/matches
• 24/7 phone support for members
• Lots of X-rated niche content, in addition to dating nearby members

Cons

• As with most sex sites, many fake profiles
• Long questionnaires to read, yet a black difficult-to-read interface

Price

• $19.95/month
• $11.99/3 months
• $8.95/12 months

7. Craigslist Activities/Missed Encounters – Best Personals and Casual Encounters

Craigslist still lives up to its reputation as a wild and mostly unfiltered dating site, although posts now require a cell phone number – just in case of anything too creepy. While the “Casual Encounters” page was famously shut down several years ago, you can still find dating partners on the “Missed Connections” and “Activity Partners” community sections. 

Mostly men use Craigslist. No wonder then you’re more likely to find gay men, prostitutes, married people, or swinging couples than a perfect lover. 

Pros

• Post ads for casual or lifetime dating without registration
• Pretty easy for a woman to find many dates
• Posts do require a traceable cell number to be approved

Cons

• Individual posts can be flagged for almost any reason
• Mostly unfiltered posts, including lots of spammers

Price

8. Bumble – Best Hookup App for Women

Bumble is the brainy alternative to most apps for hooking up and was made with a female perspective in mind. Men can swipe profiles and match with someone they like, but it’s up to the woman to start a conversation. 

Bumble also has a career friend finder and a platonic friend finder, in addition to casual or serious dating. Though it operates similarly to Tinder, it has a social community aspect that many women and intelligent men will find appealing. 

Pros

• More filtering out of poor-quality messages, since women are the first to start a conversation
• Premium lets you view the people who already liked your profile
• A 60 percent success rate for matches turning into a conversation

Cons

• Not much for keyword searching or filtering matches

Price

• A limited number of free swipes and chats 
• The Premium “Plus” package starts at $8.99 per week

9. Tinder – Easiest to Use

Tinder is one of the easiest hooking up apps to use since you can log on with a Facebook account or a cellphone number and then start swiping. If you like someone’s profile, then swipe right. If they also like your profile, it’s a match! You can start chatting and arrange to meet.  

Tinder is far from being one of the best hookup apps, however. You frequently see complaints from men being ignored by women, or complaints from women about socially stunted men. If you’re down for bar hopping or going to a club to meet some interesting new people, you’ll have fun.

Pros

• Easy to get started, with just a cellphone number or Facebook account
• Features like “super like” will get someone’s attention
• Not only find locals but frequently see out-of-towners visiting

Cons

• No keyword or filtering searches
• Must pay premium membership to search other cities across the country or world

Price

• A limited number of free swipes per day
• $9.99 a month for those under 30, $19.99 a month for over 30

10. OkCupid – Top Casual Dating App for Teens

OkCupid is the millennial-friendly alternative to old school matching sites. In recent years, it has focused on diversity, inclusivity, and on modern culture to court younger demographics. It worked because most users are between the ages of 25 and 34.