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Despite the capacity for being attracted to both sexes, 84% of bisexuals engage in opposite sex relationships. The mechanisms underlying these dating decisions are unclear. The present research explores three possibilities as to why this disparity exists: (1) a desire for sexual reproduction, (2) pressure to conform to social norms, and (3) base rates of the available dating pool. Bisexuals (n = 132) between the ages of 18 and 49 completed an online survey assessing their experiences as a bisexual person, perceptions of reproducing sexually, and their dating habits. Results suggest pressure to conform to heterosexual social norms and the makeup of the available dating pool play a role in bisexuals’ decisions to date the opposite sex.

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   Ashley K. Wu, Michael J. Marks, Tara M. Young & Morgan A. Beasley

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Appendix 1: Dating Decisions Questionnaire

Appendix 2: Importance of Children Questionnaire

The following questions asks about your attitudes and thoughts towards having children. Please answer the following questions to the best of your ability.